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           paperback edition, 2012

Sweet-natured, intelligent and good-looking, thirteen-year-old aristocrat Alexander Aylmer seems to have everything going for him when he goes to Eton, the prestigious English public school.

Within months, however, tragedy strikes, leaving him vulnerable, heartbroken and increasingly alone, forced to find his own emotional salvation in a world that is effectively uncaring despite its good intentions. The longings recently come with puberty aggravate his turmoil until he sees the solution to them is the key to everything. Two very different people seem to promise help.

Timid Julian Smith, three years older, nurses two secrets he is terrified the other boys might discover: his humble background as the son of a removals man who had saved all his life to send a son to Eton, and his being hopelessly in love with Alexander.

Damian Cavendish, a charming, young English master, is romantically only interested in women. He is conscious though of a special affinity with boys that has brought him to Eton determined to teach and befriend them. He burns too with a longing to find himself badly needed.

By luck and pluck, Alexander finds his way to unsurpassed happiness. But can he really get away with making his own choices as to how, without regard to what society has decided in advance is good for him?

Alternately uplifting and heart-wrenching, and at times erotic, Alexander’s Choice candidly depicts a kind of passionate love the world is averse to recognising. It also reveals unflinchingly the brutal reality that can face a boy trying to have his emotional needs met in a society fallen into frightened confusion about the sexuality of early teens.

Edmund Marlowe, himself an old boy of the school, has in this, his first novel, accurately evoked the idiosyncratic but appealing world of Eton, which carried on in many of its centuries-old ways, but could not protect its own against the new spirit of the 1980s.

(from the back cover)

                                               The King's College of our Lady of Eton beside Windsor


"The sex scenes are thrillingly frank.  And there's fun to be had ... in trying to identify who the people in the book might be in real life. Eton had a bumper crop of future statesman and celebs in 1983 - David Cameron, Boris Johnson, Earl Spencer and Dominic West among them. Is Alexander's Choice a roman à clef? Is Julian, with his "wavy dark brown hair and thick spectacles" a fantasy portrait of the future Detectice McNulty? Alexander has "dazzling white teeth" and "golden-blond hair": is he based on Bojo? Earl Spencer?"

The London Review of Books,  15 July 2013.  Read the full review here.


"Eton's homoerotic whodunnit! ... Alexander's Choice is being feverishly read by as many Etonians, past and present, as can get their hands on it.  The 422-page potboiler is being hailed as the Etonian version of Fifty Shades Of Grey ... OE author Guy Walters tells me: 'The book is set in the Eighties when I was there -- David Cameron, Boris ... -- were all contemporaries ... It's quite clear ... whoever wrote it was with us at school,' he says. 'It's great fun and is actually rather well written.' "

The Daily Mail, 21 March 2013.  Read the full review here.


"Like the surprising art house hit Call Me By Your Name, Alexander’s Choice celebrates male homosexuality as a chocolate nut cluster fully capable of sharing the Whitman’s Sampler with heterosexuality’s strawberry crèmes. Such admixture is certainly how homosexuality has thrived under radar in most times and places, fueled by young male sexual exuberance. ... Works like Alexander’s Choice and Call Me By Your Name push back against LGBTQ’s now straitened boundaries to point our gaze to broader human vistas.

Baltimore Outloud, 26 April 2019. Read the full review here.


"Alexander's Choice is an entertaining, engagingly written novel which confronts serious and controversial issues with an unprejudiced, fresh perspective, daring to question the rigid constructs of contemporary society."

S. P. Somtow, 17 May 2013, multiple-award-winning author of 57 books.


Read the most hostile review with interesting comments here.

Read the Evening Standard article about Alexander's Choice here.

Read more than forty reviews on amazon.co.uk here, and many more (some duplicate) on amazon.com here and goodreads.com here. Longer ones of these by Mark Andrew, C. Caunter, Cuthbert, F.D., John Hamilton, Emile Lucien, John Mackay, Son of Nietzsche, Burnt Offerings, Parsifal, New York Resident and Gary Scott are presented separately.


The paperback version can be bought from amazon.ca, amazon.co.jp, amazon.co.ukamazon.comamazon.com.au, amazon.de, amazon.es, amazon.fr, amazon.it, amazon.nl, amazon.pl and amazon.se.

The kindle version can be bought from amazon.ca, amazon.co.jpamazon.co.uk,  amazon.com, amazon.com.au, amazon.com.br, amazon.com.mx,, amazon.de, amazon.es, amazon.fr, amazon.in, amazon.it and amazon.nl.


Julian's Destiny, a sketch for a sequel to Alexander's Choice by the author's friend Stephen Nicholson, was written in 2018 and published on this site in 2023.


Traduction en français

Le Choix d'Alexandre, une traduction en français réalisée par J. M. Thian, professeur français retraité de l'enseignement de l'anglais comme seconde langue, a été publié par Arcadian Dreams en 2024..

La version brochée du Choix d'Alexandre est disponible sur amazon.fr au prix de 14,99 €, et dans tous les autres points de vente Amazon pour une somme à peu près équivalente.

Une version Kindle est également disponible sur amazon.fr au prix de 7,99 €, et dans tous les autres points de vente Amazon pour une somme à peu près équivalente.




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Dr Chad Scholaster,  20 September 2022

Haha! Eton never seems to get a break, does it? However, maybe Mr Marlowe's work is in itself the big break.